Thank Heavens for Essential Oils!!

Not only does Aubree have multiple food allergies she also as a list of environmental allergies to go along! She is allergic to cats, dust mites, mold and pollen! They were progressively getting worse. She was a mess constantly snotting, eyes swollen with big circles, sneezing, itchy eyes and red dots on her face and overall miserable. Nothing was touching it. We were all miserable. (NOT to mention the whole issue of trying to decide if a reaction was food related or environmental!  Oh the stress it can cause) We had even spoke to her allergist about shots. Her doctor recommended moving forward with them, but I wanted to think about it a bit. I did not know what to do. I truly want to do what is best for my kids. Watching her struggle was painful. But I knew putting her through shots would also be painful!

This was a picture of Aubree in the Fall 2014. Many times she looked way worse than this! Plus pictures never do it justice!

THAT'S when I heard about essential oils. I don't even remember now where I heard they could help seasonal allergies. BUT I thought it sounds way better than the lots and lots of shots that would be in our future Natural oil that comes from plants, flowers and stems used to help SO many things. NO additives, chemicals, toxins. All natural....AND best of all painless to my baby girl! . So with some research I decided to give these little oils a try. I bought a Premium Starter Kit from Young Living in February 2015. We chose Young Living because they have a Seed to Seal guarantee! Meaning they own their own farm and are part of the process from start to finish. They are hands down the best company for oils. Not a question in my mind on purity. WOW, OH WOW. With consistent use Aubree's environmental allergies are 95% Better. WE will take it! We use the oils (Lemon, Lavender and Peppermint) topically 2-3 times a day. If for some reason she is struggling, like harvesting fields around us, we will also put those same oils in the diffuser. It was an answer to many prayers.  Cue the start of my love for Essential Oils! Boy, do I love oils! (and allergies is just ONE of the many ways we use oils!) I feel like God placed these amazing oils in our life at the perfect time!

At our yearly appointment with Aubree's allergist in May I told her what we had been doing. She didn't seem to know too much about oils. She wrote it down in her chart and said keep doing what we are doing because it was working! SCORE!

Obviously everyone is different, but it worked for us! I am happy to answer any questions about this journey. I wish essential oils were more well known because they are amazing additions to every home. So, I feel it is my mission to talk about them and share the love. So, if you notice I love to talk and post about oils a lot on FB, I can't help myself. I love them and truly want others to know about them and love them too.

Long overdue Check-in

Aubree Grace is now SEVEN years old, a 1st grader and doing excellent! Aubree is still highly allergic to Peanuts, eggs, milk, wheat and soy. She also has pretty high environmental allergies to cats, dust mites, molds and pollen. BUT we try so hard not to let that stop us!

Life happened and my blog took the backseat, for that I apologize. My cousin asked about my blog to share with a friend that was struggling. (Thank you, Brianna, for that push!) It reminded me about it and how much it could be helping someone dealing with similar situations. So I decided I would try to be better about blogging! Life with a child with food allergies is very overwhelming. I know when Aubree was first diagnosed I spent hours reading and researching online. (who am I kidding, I still do it!) Sometimes knowing you aren't alone is the best feeling. It was definitely bittersweet to go bath through and read my old blogs. Just WOW! How far we have come.

There is no way I could possibly share with you all of our ups and down in the last few years. We will just say there were LOTS!  We  have added to our family, TWO year old Paisley. Has NO allergies! So #2 of 4 is the only child in our family with allergies.

Big Sister Hallie and Aubree ready for the first day of 1st and 3rd grades!

School has been our biggest milestone since my last entry. Aubree amazes me everyday. She has adjusted to school way better than I could have dreamed. We are very fortunate to be attending a small accommodating school. I could not imagine the amount of stress I would be having if it was not for our school community! (A God send really!) Beginning Kindergarten last year, I was a mess. I had always been in control of Aubree. Where she was, what she was exposed to, what she ate, what those around her ate, how often they washed hands, ect. This was a BIG change. I honestly had to dig deep within myself to overcome this. Educate, Trust, and have Faith. Luckily she had an excellent teacher and I felt comfortable.  I just keep telling myself is to educate those around her the best I can. Trust that they understand and will do everything in their power to keep her safe.  Then very much have Faith that God would protect her through it all! Does the worry stop? Nope. Have I had moments of being so overwhelmed I just cry? Yep. I think that's part of the process. Having a child with potentially fatal food allergies is scary. Period. Anytime I see school calling me for any reason, my heart immediately hits my stomach. It is defiantly a worry I do not wish on anyone. However, I am very thankful for an otherwise healthy Aubree Grace. It could be worse and I am grateful for what I have been blessed with. It is all part of what makes us, US!

Aubree has begin to self carry her allergy meds. We got this little gem and it has worked out perfectly! :http://www.spibelt.com/products/kids-spibelt/kids-spibelt-prints. This is big. I have a sense of peace knowing that she always has her Avi-Q and anti-histamines on her at all times. In the event of an emergency every second matters. She is getting older and I feel this gives her more independence without the constant thought of remembering to send it with her everywhere. Worth checking out when the time comes to self carry!

Food Allergies have made me become a bit more creative with it comes to birthday cakes! It may not be perfect but she was very excited about it. Made from rice kirspie treats. (made with oil not butter)

This is just a small glimpse at life today. We have good days, we have bad days. But overall she is a healthy, thriving, bright little girl! I hope to be more active in my blogs in the future. You know, don't wait 3 years in between posts and have to reactive your account. ;)

It has been awhile!  Nothing like having Halloween reminding you to write a blog! :)


#1 The Aller-bling Bracelet is AWESOME
You can kind of see it in this picture. It is has small charms with a picture and lists what she is allergic to. Perfect for this age! It is used as a conversation piece to get her talking about her allergies. In my opinion it is a good education piece. One more step we can take to keep our baby safe. She has kept it on for a good 2 months now. I have caught people in stores, church, ball games, ect. looking at it. Even if they do not mention it they are noticing it. Bringing more awareness to the often overlooked world of Food Allergies. I love it! If you have a child with one or more allergies Consider it.







 

#2  May contain traces of wheat and egg. Contains milk. Manufactured in a facility that also has peanuts. Packaged on shared equipment with egg. Contains soy. May contain milk, wheat, eggs, soy and peanuts. Manufactured in a facility that also produces egg, wheat, milk and soy. Ever seen this so many times you want to scream?  Start reading labels, even if you don’t have to. It will make you go, hmmmmm.

#3 Halloween makes me want to panic.

You think dressing up and going door to door to get candy is the best thing ever. Well, to most people it is. And to Miss Aubree Grace it is too. It is her Momma that has the issue! My kids are the BEST. We did not eat that first bite of candy until we returned home. The best part, no one asked!!!!!  Aubree had the best time collecting the candy, knowing she was not going to get to eat 90% of what she collected. The problem….The ingredients are not listed on each individual package of candy. It is just the main bag. You can’t go by well I know she can have that, because it changes so frequently.  Just yesterday looked at a package of candy that she can normally have and it now says may contain egg and wheat. Dum-dum suckers and smarties are a safe candy. (but other than that we supplement with candy we buy)  .................by the way I had to take a 30 min break in writing because I had just given Aubree a piece of bubblegum and she came and told her her throat was feeeling itchy. I made her spit it out and she had a nice does of antihistimine.  She kepts saying it was itchy for about 20 mins then said it felt normal again. BIG SIGH…..OH MY......

 

#4 We learn so much each day. We are now working on teaching Keegan about Aubree’s allergies. That is a new one for us. I think he is getting it, it is pretty cute!

#5 We are beyond blessed to have Aubree as our daughter. She makes us laugh and teaches us the value of life each and every day. Love her and would not trade her AND our journey with allergies for anything (it would be perfectly fine if she DID out grow them though. LOL)



WHY?

Sometimes I am angry, sometimes I feel sorry for Aubree, sometimes I feel sorry for myself. Sometimes I cry over it all!  Why her?  Why MY baby girl?  Why can I not just make macaroni and cheese and call it lunch for all the kids? Why can we not stop and pick up a quick pizza on the way home because I am exhausted and don’t want to cook? Why an Ice Cream social instead of a fruit social? Why do I have to take these extra precautions? Do other people understand how easy they have it?

To me, those are normal feelings. Having a 3 year old that is Severely allergic to Milk, peanuts, wheat, eggs and soy is no easy task.

There is a lot of daily prep that goes along with having that many allergies. Her “special” food is much more expensive than the normal stuff, can’t be bought at all grocery stores and also tastes much different. We could not possibly cut all of those foods out of our house completely. Therefore, I do a lot of double cooking. Our kind AND Aubree’s kind.  That means 2 kinds of pizza, two kinds of cookies, two kinds of spaghetti, two kinds of so many different foods. Most of the time she eats a variety of what we are having.  For example, she can have meat loaf (oatmeal not crackers) make her a small one that does not have egg in it. She can have plain potatoes…but no milk, butter, cheese, sour cream….just plain ole potatoes. If I am making cheesy potatoes for the rest of the family, I will just make sure to take hers out before adding cheese and other non-Aubree safe foods. What if she is SUPER hungry today and I don’t save her out enough?  Making 100% sure not to cross contaminate anything. Utensils, ect. I could spend $4 on a single can of her kind of chicken noodle soup. Be so excited because it is something new and different. Then she won’t even touch it because she is 3 and they can often be finicky eaters. …..SIGH!

Here is just another example of what we deal with ….Hallie just started Kindergarten. I got information about her Open house in the mail…Come meet your teacher and have an Ice Cream treat. My mind immediately thinks about Aubree. She wants to go to the Open House too and see where her big sister is going to be every day.  I DON’T want to go there and everyone else is eating ice cream and her just watch. How horrible would that be? If you have a little child, think what would my kid do in that situation? See everyone eating a yummy treat like ice cream, sorry honey you can’t have any……Most kids that are three would throw  a fit until you gave in and gave it to them. I CAN’T just give in and give it anyway. It could be her life. Since I had advance warning about the ice cream I could make arrangements. I emailed her teacher to find out what the treats would be. Fudge pops, ice cream sandwiches, and drum sticks. I was determined to bring her something similar. Her wonderful Nana found her kind of fudge pops. So I wrapped that fudge pop up in a bunch of ice packs and put in a small container to help keep it frozen. That way my baby girl could have an ice cream treat like all the other young kids.  What if I didn’t know they were serving ice cream?? We would have been in that situation someone would not be happy. I could not let any of my kids have an ice cream treat because Aubree couldn’t. I am sure they would be disappointed Hallie understands, Keegan does not. But they would still see all the other kids with it. Or I could let Hallie and Keegan have one and Aubree not because it is not safe. Then I am sure she would be disappointed. I would have been in a no win situation. We are in situations SO very often. It is just not fair.

 It is a completely different life than we had 4 short years ago. There is no I don’t feel like messing with it today. EVERY.SINGLE.DAY….NO exception.  

 Almost 4  years later it is still hard and I still ask myself all of those same questions. But as time goes on and Aubree is growing up, she has that little spunky personality and is MY little girl. I know the answers to some of those questions.

GOD chose US for Aubree and AUBREE for us!

She is MINE!  I will go to great lengths for her. I will do everything in my power to make her feel special and loved. I will keep her safe. Make her feel included. Her Allergies have shaped her into the little girl that I love so much. Her Allergies have shaped me into the Momma that I am today. As hard as it can be at times I would NOT change it.  It helps make us, US! Aubree is smart and will do great things. Are some days hard? Yes! BUT that is OUR life and I LOVE our life!

I want to help others that are dealing with the similar issues. Aubree was given to me for a reason. I could put on a happy face and act like it is no big deal, a piece of cake, and never question why. But that is not real. That would not be real for anyone dealing with multiple food allergies. I like real. I want others dealing with similar things to not feel alone. It IS overwhelming and hard, but not impossible!

One of Aubree’s new favorite songs : FOOD ALLERGIES ROCK

A few things we have discovered!

Aubree had a skin prick test again in May. She is still severly allergic to Peanuts, milk, eggs, wheat and soy. She is so strong and amazes me every day. Not a tear dopped when she had her testing done.


Kyle Dine Music---He writes songs about Food Allergies, they are geared towards kids. Aubree absolutely loves the music. You can just see in her face that she can relate to what she is hearing.  She along with her sister and brother dance and sing around the livingroom. It is priceless! Here is a link and you can listen to the songs!
http://www.kyledine.com/listen.html


Going to the grocery can be so overwhelming. I can not being to tell you the number of times I have been up and down the cereal aisle or the frozen dessert aisle. Only to be frustrated at not finding anything new and exciting that Aubree can have.
On a recent trip to Iowa we were able to discover So Delicious Dairy Free Ice cream!
http://www.sodeliciousdairyfree.com/
That little girl was so excited, I would pay that $6.50 for a small container to see the happiness in her face! Knowing what we were looking for we were able to find it in stores in our hometown as well. How in the world have I missed that?! Oh well, she enjoys it now, and that is what matters!

I thank God every day that that fiesty little girl that just happens to have life threating Food Allergies, belongs to US!

The Circus & Peanuts

Peanuts are an airborne allergen and just by breathing those in it could be very dangerous. For that very reason we are not supposed to have peanut products in our house or go places that have open peanut containers. So we cannot go to places like Texas Roadhouse where peanuts are everywhere and all over the floor.

A couple nearby towns were having a small traveling circus come.  We decided to go. It was just a large tent with a circus arena set up in the middle.  WHY oh WHY did I NOT think about the fact there may be peanuts there. It didn’t occur to me. We had gone to a much larger circus when Aubree was a baby and they had done away with peanuts because of allergies.

We were all settled in our seats and the Circus began. We had great seats. The kids were excited, laughing, having a great time.  Venders were going around selling cotton candy, popcorn, and all the toys that we cringe when we see them trying to sell. About a half hour into the show (the first show at this town) they announced that they were selling peanuts for the next 5 mins and there were prize vouchers in the bags. My heart stopped. In this hot, muggy tent they were about to be hundreds of people eating peanuts. I quickly took her out. I could not bring myself to risk it.  We tried to watch from the opening of the tent but she just could not get into it from that far away, plus it was making me nervous.  Luckily there was a nearby park so Aubree and I went there to play, while the rest of the group finished watching the circus. I explained to Aubree why we left. My AMAZING baby girl understood, and never once acted disappointed. Yet, how could a 3 year old NOT be disappointed with that?!?!?

Now I struggle with the fact that I SHOULD have known, I should have called, I could have caused her to have a bad reaction. Just sucks.  YES I believe they should have had it posted that there were going to be peanuts. But ultimately it is no one’s fault but my own. I as her mother should have checked in advance! Live and learn, but darn it. Not how I wanted today to go. It could have been worse; she could have actually had a reaction.  I am truly THANKFUL! She didn’t and I believe she didn’t because we got the heck out of there. Blah, Blah, Blah!

Preschool

Preschool…..

I am trying to decide for the Allergy factor alone if I need to go ahead and slowly start school with Aubree.  Hallie did not go to school at all until this past year. She just did PreK and it was 4 days a week. It worked out great for her. BUT I am not sure how I could handle always being in control of what Aubree eats to being away from her 4-5 days per week. She has two years before going to Kindergarten. Do I want to start 2 days a week this coming year then 3 days a week the following year?? That way we both ease our way into it. OR do I want to take these next two years and make sure she 100% understands all of her allergies and what she can eat??  I honestly am not too worried about the academic aspect of preschool. She is a bright girl and would be fine.   I don’t know. I don’t know.  I do know that I would have to be 100% Comfortable with the school/teacher before I would even consider it.  I am proud of how much Aubree understands what she is allergic to and what she can have. But she is still just 3 and looks for my direction a lot. My biggest fear is that an adult would tell her that a food is ok when it is not, and something would happen and I NOT be there! I would not handle that well.  I don't want her to feel like the "Freak" of the class and be embarassed. I don't want teachers to be annoyed at all the questions I am going to ask and how involved I am going to want to be. But this is MY baby and it is MY job to keep her safe!  I have even toyed around with the homeschooling option. There is so much to learn about life from the school setting. I guess I need to weigh my options.  I don’t know, I don’t know!!

This may sound like not a big deal to some….but it is a HUGE deal to us. My priority is to keep Aubree SAFE, happy & healthy!

food, Food, FOOD!!

Why does food have to be or talked about everywhere?

Every week at Gymnastics class while stretching they play a game, go around the room and say what they like on their ice cream or in their sandwich or pizza or whatever kind of food. I notice Aubree thinking for a second and then just blurting out a type of food similar to what the others are saying.  And me from the bleachers, I want to yell....She can't have that!  I KNOW food is fun for kids, but it makes me cringe!

We were at a local park playing and I see someone reach in their bag and get out a jar of PEANUTS and start snacking. All I can think is PEANUTS, PEANUTS, PEANUTS!!!!  Before Allergies were in our family I probably would not have given it a second thought. Heck, that could have even been ME eating the peanuts!

Signing Hallie up for Kindergarten reading through the paperwork about lunches, snacks, parties ect. The whole time I am thinking about Aubree and how this will effect her when it is her time for school..... I think everyone should bring their own lunches and  own snacks from home, eat their own food, and NOT share!! LOL....piratical, right?!?

Just a few things I think about regularly!

Education is key

I am proud of my baby girl. Allergies are a part of our daily life. Aubree being the middle of our three kids, allergens are constantly present. If your kids are like mine, they can get of from eating a great meal and ask for a snack! She is always so aware of the foods that she can and can't have. We make a little game of quizzing her with different foods to see if she knows what she can have. We have tried very hard to make her undertand that eating a food she is allergic to is dangerous. I have overheard her cousins trying to give her food that she is allergic to before and she simply says, NO, I'm allergic. It makes my heart swell with pride! For a 3 year old she sure is quite educated on food ;)

Sometimes I think I am more bothered/upset with her feeling different that what she is. This is all that she knows, and she is used to it! Me bringing "her special" cupcakes to a birthday party, wedding or shower is perfectly normal to her. Tagging along a lunchbox everywhere we go is normal!  SHE is a normal little girl that we just have to take extra special care of.

Aubree can have her "special kind" of Christmas cookie and icing too!

Thinking about sending her off to school in a couple years is nothing but terrifying to me! I need to start preparing her (and ME) now!  I have always been with her, watching like a hawk (and sometimes feeling like I have eyes in the back of my head) to keep her safe. How will I possibly be comfortable sending her off to school?!?  Her older sister, Hallie, is in PreK now. Hearing of all the snacks and activites they do with food amazes me. HOW could this possibly workwith Aubree? I have NO idea. We have time, and everything always works out! I am praying now....

We have this book : Food Allergies and Me: A Children's Book  By: Juniper Skinner

 http://www.amazon.com/Food-Allergies-Me-Childrens-Book/dp/1456413287/ref=sr_1_7?ie=UTF8&qid=1326821599&sr=8-7

We love it! Aubree can really relate to the little boy. I think it is a great teaching tool!

Grocery Shopping

The Grocery store…..way different than before! Now, I need to focus! Making sure to have plenty of Aubree friendly foods! What does that mean? Reading labels. There are so many ways that a single allergen could be listed. Just as an example Aubree is allergic to milk, so if Casein is listed she could not have it.  I wonder if others see me reading labels in the store and think I’m just another Health nut!?! Oh boy, do I wish! Instead I am diligently reading labels to protect my baby!  Luckily, there has been a law passed and the top 10 allergens must have a separate warning that is in bold. That does make things a little easier, but I still need to read.  Things also can change each time, so I have to read each and every time I buy that box of cereal, bag of marshmallows, package of lunchmeat, ect. 

Allergies on the rise companies are scared. They have to save their rear ends, lots and lots of foods have a “may contain traces of…” OR “also processes peanuts, wheat, ect” OR “shared equipment with other allergens”  In that case, I really need to steer clear to be on the safe side. That usually means that I am buying the more expensive brands a lot. And that gets expensive, especially the Gluten free things.   That bag of frozen peas and carrots that I have been buying forever now says: May contain traces of milk, soy and peanuts. So, have they really changed the way they make them? Ugh, so many things to consider! But if I chance it and try it anyway, could that be the time there really were traces in the food. And that is all it takes, a trace!  

Have you ever thought about the fact that the slicer at the deli that just sliced the Turkey Breast (that was perfectly safe) had just sliced cheese?!? I have to think about little things like that, ALL.THE.TIME….it is her life! The added struggle now is that with

I can’t just throw a carton of ice cream in the cart and keep going.  Now I think, My Aubree can’t have ice cream, do I REALLY want to get this? If I do decide to go ahead with the ice cream, (which is rare) I need to get something that she can have when we are eating ice cream.  Philly Swirl brand (purple box) is a peanut/tree nut and Gluten Free plant. They have these little cups of popsicle like stuff that you eat with a wooden spoon. She LOVES them and that works for us!  

There have been many of times I have left the grocery store so discouraged and frustrated, wanting to kick and scream!    Needless to say, I love to go to the store alone! ;)

 Again I say, I am thankful that my baby girl is here on Earth with me and that she is thriving! I am a very lucky Mommy to have her and I will do whatever it takes to keep her safe, ALWAYS!

New special treat I made today: Simple, yet fun! :)

Chocolate covered Marshmallows

Aubree safe Marshmallows (free of milk, soy, wheat, peanuts, eggs, apples &green beans!)

Enjoy Life Brand chocolate chips

Splash of Canola oil

Pour some chocolate chips in microwave safe bowl and little bit of Canola oil, mix. Microwave for  1 min and stir until smooth. Coat the marshmallows in the chocolate. Then put them in the freezer to make the chocolate harden.

She loved them, and so did her brother and sister! J

A few things I took for granted....

The Holidays are full of togetherness, laughter, and FOOD!

 Before we had Aubree, I had never given it a second thought. We always made puppy chow, peanut clusters, peanut butter pie, white chocolate party mix, sugar cookies with icing, chocolate covered pretzels ect........all of that has changed! NO peanuts or peanut butter even allowed in OUR house!  Yes, there is all of that stuff all year long but it is in excess during the holidays! Aubree, being 3, wants what all of the other kids have.  Can you blame her?  I have been determined to find “special” things for Aubree to eat that she will get excited about, that are similar to what everyone else has. We have done a lot of recipe changing, and creating our own. Some have worked out great, and some not so well! We go everywhere with a lunchbox.  Is it always easy? NO.  It does take a lot of extra time and work but MY Aubree Grace is so worth it!  

Just think about all of the times you spur of the moment go out to eat because you don’t feel like cooking!  Allergies changes that all!  Restaurants are not the best place for people with multiple allergies! So I end up still having to make a meal for her and feel bad because I feel like she feels left out, even if she doesn’t give it a second thought.  So, not really the carefree evening  not cooking used to be! Another example: Just this week a family member was going to stop at a local restaurant to get take out for a Christmas gathering. We had not been there with Aubree. Usually I would just make her something but wanted to see if they had anything on the menu she could safely eat.  I looked online for their Allergy info….NONE. Called them, got transferred to THREE different people, and then I was told if I come in and ask for a manager he could print me off something. I went in there and the Manager was very nice, but really was of no help. The info he printed off for me was not intended for customers but to assist them when talking to a customer with allergies.  The print off recommended  that she not eat anything out of the fryer because of cross contamination and also nothing off the grill for the same reason, NICE….that left very little. The manager was excited to hear she was not allergic to corn, they ONLY cook it with butter. Sorry to tell you sir, butter has dairy in it! We opted to make her a meal at home that was the same as what her older sister was getting.

 I did not appreciate how easy and carefree my life was before Allergies entered it. It is a whole new world that I had never even thought about before. It is a world that usually you don’t think about unless you have to! Now, I am thankful that I have a happy, healthy little girl, that I am doing my best to keep safe!  I am thankful for all of the knowledge that I have gained through this journey and hope to share some of the knowledge with others that may need/want it!

Aubree is surprising me every day with her knowledge about her Allergies and how most of the time she is perfectly content eating “her” stuff.  I am proud of her. I know that is all she knows, but she still amazes me!

Aubree's story in a Nutshell

Aubree Grace is my 3 year old spunky, smart, sweet, funny little girl that happens to have food allergies.  

Aubree was breastfed as a baby and we knew something just wasn't right, she seemed unsettled a lot of the time (crying and arching her back A LOT!) and had nasty eczema that would not clear, her face just looked swollen and she would itch all over. It broke my heart to see my baby like that.  Her pediatrician decided to do a RAST test when she was six months old. ( blood test testing for allergies!) A week later is when we found out that she was allergic to milk, soy, wheat, egg white and peanuts. At that point I don't think I really understood how much of a life change this would be! Through introducing new foods we also added sweet potatoes, green beans and apples to her list! WOW, what oh what will my baby actually be able to eat?!? A few allergists later, we finally got her on an Amino Acid based formula that she did great with, called Neocate. This was a lifesaver for Aubree. This change along with many other lotions, creams, ointments, not using soap for baths finally got her skin under control. Yes we still have "allergy eyes" (circles around eyes) from time to time but other than that you could not tell by looking at her that she has allergies!

For a long time Aubree had not ingested any of the foods that she was allergic to, it was only through my breastmilk that she had even been exposed to the foods at all. But when she was about 17 months old she took a sip of another child’s sippy cup that had milk in it. She immediately started with a very dry cough, itching like crazy and her eyes started swelling shut. THAT is when I became a huge believer in Benadryl! I also think that is when it set in just how serious her Allergies can be! 

Just about 2 months ago Aubree was exposed to a little bit of egg white….she was around a newly hatched baby chick. I am assuming that she touched it and finger went to her mouth.  She was laboring to breathe. I immediately gave her Benadryl washed her down and held her to watch her very closely. Luckily we have never had to use our Epi pen. But boy have we been close. Since then we have had an Allergist appointment where we added Molds, dust mites and cats to our list of allergies.

We work very hard to teach Aubree about her food allergies and what foods she is allergic to and that we have to work extra hard to keep her safe. It is important that SHE is aware.  It has not always been easy, especially living in a house with two other kids that have NO food allergies! We have days where we want to cry, we feel sorry for ourselves and we wish things were different. BUT things can ALWAYS be worse. We also have days where my heart is swollen with pride on how aware my little girl is for THREE years old!  We take what we are given and we are going to make the best of it. All of our experiences shape us into the people we are!  I make it my mission to make Aubree feel special and try my best to make her feel included in everything. I have learned so much up to this point and I have so much more to learn. A few short years ago, I had NO clue about Food Allergies and how much was involved in keeping people safe that have them.  I . DO. NOW! J

This is Aubree’s story in a nutshell. There is so much more to it than this but this is a start. I hope that others can learn from my blog. Whether you have food allergies, a child with food allergies, or just becoming aware of allergies, I hope my blog helps in some way.

These are just a few pictures of Aubree before we knew that she had food allergies